Accolades

I keep a continuous study in the works of Aristotle and hope you don’t mind joining me. It is interesting how people think the same and societies go through the same struggles regardless the era. We may modernize our external equipment and become better at mass transit and mass communication, but the questions we have from generation to generation are always the same. Principles that apply to living well don’t change.

Although people claim to hate politics, what they really hate is arguing with dogma. Aristotle claims in the book “Politics” that man is a political animal. This means that people naturally want to hang out with each other whether they need anything from each other or not. Knowing how to excel in our interactions with others is a skill that should be a priority to develop. We want to limit misfortune and evil while maintaining a balance with goodness in the lead.  The goal in mind is having a good life while staying free. We will endure great misfortune in order to live our own lives the way we want. The main desire is to have a life of sweetness and happiness.

We concluded in a past blog that the definition of a citizen is someone who participates in governing. The stricter the criteria for citizenship, the more important we feel their role is. When people are only subjects, the goal is to get anyone and everyone registered so the ruler can have a majority and stay in power. When people are expected to rule, the opinions of everyone are taken into consideration for every decision. They will be expected to be well informed and educated as well as having gone through strict vetting to make sure they are actual and active citizens.  Let’s proceed on and look at the types of offices and how available they should be to everyone.

The best authority rises out of the ranks. A mother was a child at one time, a helmsmen a sailor, a gymnastic trainer a former gymnast; the list can go on. So it goes with politics in a constitutional government. In order to have objectivity, where the people’s interests are ahead of the ruling class, it is best that the rulers come out of the ranks of the citizenry. Arrangements would be made for someone to cover for them at work while they serve the people in office. It would be natural to assume that they would serve their term and then go back into their private work. But the temptation for lucrative income and accolades make them want to stay in office. The more rulers are interested in securing their positions and the more the interests of the common people are ignored, the more a government becomes despotic. But the goal is having a community of freemen. So with this in mind, we will continue in book three, chapter seven looking at different forms of governments and how they become despotic.

Meanings

We fret over words, our minds second guess

Words from the heart are random at best
Let’s not waste any time analyzing things
Don’t worry about words, I know what you mean
 
Things spoken in fear can’t be too precise 
Don’t worry a bit about playing nice 
Express all you feel whatever life brings
Don’t worry about words, I know what you mean
Your feelings inside always tell me the truth 
Your emotions won’t lie, you don’t need an excuse
I’ll do anything to keep your soul free
Don’t worry about words, I know what you mean

 

Storm and Calm

Despite the swirling winds of time

All the the lows and all the highs 
Grasping for a peace out there 
If the mind’s too tired to care
Through all the settled dust
When concerns refrain from fuss
The blurry lens in focus now
Your face appears removing doubts
With my eyes raise to the heights 
The aura of the northern lights 
Swim below a lake that’s clear
With courage now amid the fears
A storm rolls in, we’re filled with awe 
A voice within a shelter calls 
It feels the same as flashes blind 
When thoughts of you pass through my mind 

 

Growing a Spine

It wasn’t too long ago when we used words like poise, dignity, grace and honor frequently when instructing people how to handle adversity. It seems backwards today however. Although tolerance seems to be the catch all word today, there is actually very little of it going around. Tolerance has morphed into a synonym of forced acceptance rather than  one of fortitude and our culture seems to be losing its spine.

We used to endorse the notion that each person is unique and should be proud of who they are regardless what people say or think. Let them say what they want, just hold your head high. Now though, we tell them to whine about it, call it abuse and pass laws against it. A hero to them is someone who can whine the loudest and get the most sympathy. Actually it is disgraceful and insecure to carry a chip on one’s shoulder. The the most effective way to combat judgmental people is to shame them with your good attitude.

You might call me old fashioned but I have the belief that good principles never get old. That the best way to have a good workplace or a school is for people to have tact and stand up to offenses by not qualifying them with a crybaby or an angry response. When a person whines or gets angry, the offender has won, regardless of the outcome. A brawler once told me that a person who remains cool is the scariest one in the room. A soft answer turns away wrath.

I suppose it is easier to arouse passion against success than to applaud success. There is little work involved afterward. Professionalism means that a person is unaffected by adverse circumstances and doesn’t let obnoxious people rile them up. We should all champion having the ability to stay steady and give room for cycles both in circumstances and in dealing with people’s moods. Those of us who are passionate know this well. It is important to steer passions toward caring and understanding rather than anger and vengeance. I have to admit that this takes more work. But this is the foundation of improving a culture. The greatest causes aren’t external ones but it lies within ourselves; where ultimately we have the most responsibility to improve.

 

Gamblers Odds

I have been reading a book recently about how we form bias’. It is interesting how many principles apply in philosophy that are reinforced by scientific study. There are two areas that we deal with as humans and we do so much better if we can sort them out. One is random events and the other is controlled events. The book had a chapter on how we see patterns, make associations and then form opinions. The interesting thing is that many times we think we see patterns when they are really random events.

Most people have heard of gamblers odds. If a person flipped a coin and had heads show up ten times, the odds of getting a heads on the eleventh time have not increased. It is still 50/50. Having children is the same way. No matter how many girls born to a person, the odds of having a boy never increase above that of the first time. Even in basketball, there really is no such a thing as a hot streak. A person shoots at a certain percentage and while that person might be hitting a few in a row, the overall odds are the same for hitting each shot.

Where this applies to real life is that sometimes people fail in business or a relationship because of bad breaks or random events. It doesn’t always mean that actions were made that sabotaged it. This brings us to controlled events; the areas where our decisions influence the outcome. Even in this area, people react in unpredictable ways to what we do and the turnout may still end up what we didn’t want to happen. So how do we sort this all out?

We are in control of our actions and and our habits. This is a great thing and we should savor the fact that we have rational minds and can react outside of instinct if we want to. We can have goals and passions to chase and really there is nothing that can stop our forward motion. Random events might put a pause for a time but as long as we stay confident and keep moving, all will be well. The foundation is that we depend on love and kindness as general principles to guide us when people don’t react the way we would like. We should avoid the pitfall of labeling things acts of God or Fate. It is good to recognize the originating force surrounding us but random events aren’t caused by them and it is up to us to deal with ramifications. We are perfectly capable and equipped for it. Don’t let the apocalyptic crowd effect you.

Study to understand principles that can be put into habit to minimize losses from random events. This works well in finances. Some people do happen to be at the right place at the right time and get wealth. But they will still have to follow good principles to keep it. Kids that inherit and those who parents set them up still have to follow the same principles of hard work as anyone else. We have all seen those who squander. But the principles of diligence hold for everyone regardless of what one has. Eventually we come out of it if we stay diligent.

In regard to age, there is never an time where a person should kick back, get fat, lazy and self indulge. Stress has proven to be a factor for the good toward longevity. We should always try new things, explore, be curious and learn from the world around us. Even if we don’t reach the summit, we should die happy clawing our way on the rocks enjoying the view along the way. A rock might fall, weather get bad, but we’re still going forward regardless what goes on around us.
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What we Think

Sometimes we think love 

Is like a dinner plate 
You can walk away from 
Or a deal you missed 
Like passing a yard sale
But it doesn’t follow 
Commerce rules 
It’s not like a faucet 
You can turn off 
A switch to flick 
To turn on the lights 
A pedal to push 
To speed up 
Or slow down 
It does what is right
For its beloved 
Is not a user
Love cares deeply 
Will not impose itself
Is patient and kind 
Will step out of the way
For a person’s happiness
At its own hearts expense 
Love also doesn’t change 
Will sacrifice for loved ones 
Would rather be destitute  
Than hurt its beloved 
No it isn’t a task 
An accomplishment 
If it has to be won 
Then it’s a card game 
But it can’t be love 
Maybe I am a purist 
To my own detriment 
There isn’t a map 
But this is all I know 
 


 




 

Books

As a small child I was introduced

To an endless  world found in pages 
A crisp new book crackle 
The smell of ink 
A cover to smack the table
Or your neighbor  
The paper smelled of old and some new 
But then I was introduced to heaven
The library with its majestic rows 
A reverence fills the air 
Mixing with the smell of books
Rows and rows of bindings show 
Each book contains a world so fair
Adventure, politics, mystery, romance 
Geography, self help 
And oh yes, Dr Seuss 
Each one has a nestled home 
Hiding in place except for those 
Skilled with the use of small oak drawers
We encoders know 
The secret to the cards 
And we all with due respect 
Quietly find the book we like 
Meeting eye to eye to book
With people of like interest 
But of course we just smile 
This ocean of words 
Has tributaries into homes 
You can check them out 
If you perhaps have acquired 
A passport called a library card
These oracles are sacred
So there are penalties
To those who linger with them too long
One can make a library  
With little shelves of their own 
And enjoy the new page smell
Crunched in a cover 
But keep them forever 
They become a part of you
The pages fan to find your part
A small breeze to get you there
Bindings worn from squeezing thumbs
They have a part of your life to tell
By the pool or close by in bed 
Well liked books have covers worn
And pages torn 
But they still beat an electronic glow. 
 

Awakened

I should get out from under the covers

The sun is shining  
Dreams unfinished, my eyes flutter
The moon snuck in and whispered
To closed eyes 
And he doesn’t like to be disturbed
The sun bursts in with a million things 
Crescendoed by
The birds accompanying as they sing 

Maybe what I am dreaming can happen
I smile
Sometimes being awake is such a distraction.  

And yet ideas are carried on the sun’s rays 
New sights
Morning by morning is how the future is made  



Reasonable

When two people get together and make an agreement, there is always and expectation of a just exchange. Every individual has personal preferences that set values for them so what is just in exchanges can vary. If I like mixed media or abstract art, I will be willing to pay more and appreciate it more than another person. There are also things that have a market value which is the average price a group of individuals would be willing to pay for a product. Even relationships have value and there are expectations such as devotion and honor that we might expect to make the transaction fair. When someone feels their expectations aren’t being met they feel justified in not acquiring the product and the exchange is discontinued. When we talk about freedom this is the main point. Free people are those who can set values according to their own interests and make transactions among themselves without the interference of others.  A free market has value determined between individuals and a socialist market sets values by consensus or a panel.

Outsiders may have subject knowledge but tend to be indifferent toward personal passions and are ignorant of details. A socialist mindset starts with the thought that common people are incapable of making their own value judgments. As with all tyrannies, the subjects start out with the assumption that the oppressors have their best interests at heart. This is key to any group think or mob rule. They are in it together for a cause for a certain benefit to the group so it justifies poor judgment and bad behavior. It can be a religion, political or a social cause. But good behavior and sound judgment are based in understanding universal truths. Armed with reason, we see clearly what a just exchange really is; the correct amount of our input verses the correct amount of benefit we get out of it. This is aptly called being reasonable.

When a people are skilled at being reasonable, all of society benefits. A people who respect justice are what makes a society civil. But reason also has a critical and a penal side to it that cannot be avoided. Those who are unjust must make it right somehow. Judgment fails in two ways. First if penalties are meted out that are too severe and second if people are wrongly given a pass. In our personal lives we use judgment too but in the same way individuals should have a free exchange of goods to have a free market, we should also have the ability to use judgment and grace as we see fit. Reasonable people rightly dislike the opinions of third party outsiders who are either ignorant of details or indifferent to the situation. This attitude doesn’t suddenly make them unreasonable but is more of an indication of free thought than going along with group think.

 

A Promise

He bought her flowers 

She’d made a promise 
He loves the way she always keeps her word
He wouldn’t change her 
That’s why she loves him 
He put the flowers on his table and thought of her.
Their love is still haunting the rooms of their souls
Looking for ways to occupy it’s time
Remembering and wishing for a whisper 
Knowing they’re still intertwined. 
He won’t forget her
He made a promise 
She loves the way he always keeps his word